- Educational Space: The main purpose for this group is as a weekly peer discussion for people practicing or curious about polyamory, ethical non-monogamy and allies. Understanding that humans are always learning, a priority is put on education and growth in this space. This is not a place for meeting new partners and no explicit content is allowed.
- No Discrimination: No discrimination of any kind will be tolerated, up to and including discrimination on the basis of race, religion, culture, disability, SOGIE (sexual orientation, gender expression/identity), or style of non-monogamy practiced.
- Confidentiality: Being part of this group requires mutual trust. Authentic, expressive discussions make groups great, but may also be sensitive and private. Anything posted or discussed in group stays in group – especially names and identifying information. It is okay to talk about concepts you see posted or hear about in group with outside parties, but please do not disclose identifying specifics.
- Disclosure: When discussing or posting, please refrain from using identifying information of anyone if you do not have their explicit permission to do so. In these cases, use a pseudonym, e.g. Partner Red, Partner Blue, etc.
- Consent is Required: Enthusiastic, Informed, and Active Consent is expected when engaging with members of this group. This means actively asking for, gaining, and maintaining consent for things like direct messages or friend requests, compliments on appearance, physical touch, explicit content/discussion, etc.
- Respect the Speaking Order: If someone is already speaking and you’d like to speak next, please raise your hand and we will add your name to the list.
- Distraction Policy: Please be attentive during the discussion. Turn your phone off or keep it in silent mode. If you need to deal with something during the meeting, we understand! Feel free to quietly excuse yourself at any point and join us again when you’re done.
- Participation in the group is totally optional! Whether it is a “show of hands,” or a question posed to the group, you do not have to jump in. If you just want to sit and listen, that is totally ok!